Stop Chasing Start Choosing

How to Attract and Keep the Woman You Want, Without Getting Rejected




“The woman you choose as a partner is the most important decision you’ll ever make.

However, due to bad information from society, your friends, family and Hollywood, most men go through life assuming they know enough, and never try to optimize their approach to attracting women. 

Guys get coaches for everything from skiing to golfing, but never dating. I find this strange because your golf swing isn’t gonna make a difference in whether or not you have kids, or get stuck listening to some fat nagging wife for the rest of your life.

By getting good directions, you’ll have a huge leg up. And, if you do nothing else other than stop making the mistakes 99% of guys make, your life will change for the better.

I’m tired of seeing women wearing the pants in relationships because guys don’t feel they have options."



"Most guys think they can “learn by doing” and end up getting subpar results because women rarely give honest feedback as to why they don’t want to date or sleep with you, and they don’t always know themselves.

This lack of feedback and bad results leads to a downward spiral. But with the right information, the cycle is reversed, and momentum can immediately shift in your favor. That’s what you’ll learn inside.

The girl you’ve got your eye on? Time to make her yours. But this time, she’s chasing you."





Dan Bilzerian's Playbook

Everything Dan's learned over the past 25 years about the optimal approach, dating, social media strategies, female psychology and understanding how to optimize attraction.


Live Zoom Sessions

Get specific answers to your questions on Live Group Q&A's with Dan and his coaches


Maintaining the Power

When you're chasing her, your flaws are magnified. When she's chasing you, your flaws disappear. Learn the steps to move from chasing to choosing


Sigma Community

Connect with guys who are on a similar journey. Foster friendships that last a lifetime.

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Dan spent over 1 year creating and refining the “Trigger Her to Chase” Blueprint, until he saw incredible results from the guys he was privately mentoring.


Join the Program

Attract and keep the woman you want, without her pulling away and without risking rejection.

Join a community of like minded men and foster friendships that last a lifetime.

  • Live Zooms with Dan Bilzerian
  • Celebrity Guests & Experts
  • The Trigger Her to Chase Blueprint
  • Private Community
  • And more…

Questions & Answers

Do I need to be rich for this to work?

One of the biggest mistakes guys make is thinking they need to spend a ton of money to get girls. The principles in this program work no matter how much money you have, or how much you want to spend

Will this work for me?

In all our pre-launch case studies, we have seen great results with guys of all ages, ethnicities, and experience levels. Small changes make a huge difference. 

How quickly will I see results?

You will see results immediately, women will interact differently when you stop making the common mistakes. However, the more you implement the better result you will have. Don’t skip anything, watch the entire course and actively implement what you learn.

Will this work for men of any ethnicity?

Dan has coached guys of all ethnicities and they've all seen great results. By learning the principles, all men can make huge improvements in their lives. Psychology and human behavior work within all cultures. Ethnicity is only a hindrance for the men who allow it to be. You get what you expect.

Will Dan Bilzerian be on the live coaching calls?

Yes. This is Dan's passion project. He'll be on at least one call per month for all Sigma members and once per week for the Sigma Platinum members, he will also be responding to guys in the forums. In addition, Dan’s expert coaches will be available on the forums and weekly zooms as well

Is the group private?

Sigma Society is a completely private community. Even the statement on your bill will show up discretely as "TA-Blueprint"

What happens after 3 months of membership?

After 3 months, you will have the option of continued access to the coaching community for $197/mo or $1200/yr. This is not mandatory and you will not be auto-billed. This is based on opt-in only

Is there a guarantee or refund?

Dan guarantees if you watch all his modules, show up to all the coaching calls, and implement exactly what he teaches, you will unequivocally have positive results.

We do not offer refunds. All sales are final. If you cannot easily afford the program, do not join. If you're the type of guy who may get lazy or quit, do not join. Dan only wants to work with guys who are going to take this seriously.